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Dinginnya hari

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Fuh sejuknye lately. Nak bangun pagi punyalah susah semua orang. semua cakap tak nak bangun. tadi lepas hantar Ashraff pi sekolah agama,I bawak Rayyan jenjalan practice kasut baru dia. Cuaca redup ni syok la jalan kat tpi swimming pool. Rayyan apa lagi, tak nak da pegang tangan mama dia, nak jalan sendiri. Jalan menuju ke Swimming pool siap nak merangkak sambil tarik baju. Agaknya dia nak mandi kot. Dah tari ke lift pun still nak ke sana. Last last I kasi dia pegang air sikit, tersengih-sengih sampai naik atas. Budak-budak dengan air suka lah dorang. Semua sama. 2 tahun lepas, I ingat lagi, Ashraff and Afriena balik sekolah I kat dalam management opis depan swimming dok bayar bills, alih-alih tengok 2 budak tuh swimming dengan baju sekolah. Wah sungguh panas tapi tak jadi nak marah, gelak jer. Satu opis gelak tengok dorang

Berbalik pagi hari yang dingin, macam biasalah bila hari sejuk kerjanya asyik nak makan je. So semalam rasa macam hari paling banyak kiterang makan.

ni gambar durian lama, durian semalam tak amik

durian untuk panaskan badan. I beli sebijik jer. RM6 sekilo. Beli saiz kecik tapi dalam tu ada 12 ulas isi. Alhamdulillah, sebab semua pangsa ada isi kembar.So I makan sikit dulu  Pastu Rayyan mintak sikit. Sikecik ni suka durian plak. Kalau Abang n kakak dia, mau dok tutup hidung je dorang. TInggal kat Kheirul sikit. Masa Kheirul makan pun dia dok mintak nak makan durian. Kheirul cakap sedap durian tuh, durian kampung. DIa cakap macam nak pergi belli lagi. Hantu durian betul

Bubur pulut hitam for kids. Dorang suka sangat sampai tak nak makan dinner pun

Pastu buat tom yum campur for us. Makan tom yum saja. no rice and no noddle. Saja teman Kheirul yang nak berdiet. Hari ni harus I makan nasi kalau tak sure lapar. Biasalah ibu menyusu mesti cepat lapar.

Pastu goreng mihun untuk kids, saja masak lebih untuk hari ni punya lunch. Malas ler nak ngadap dapur lelama. Rayyan asyik kacau jer. Banyak tak makan?

And for today, bangun jer kena siapkan bekal for Ashraff and Kheirul. Menunye tuna sandwich. Afriena tak payah sebab dia makan kat Sekolah.Okla semua nanti kita sambung lagi. Nak sidai baju plak. Sat lagi nak siapkan bekalan untuk sekolah petang. Roti n nutella.

 

10 Tips on How to be a Successful Husband

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1.) Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasulullah SAW would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2.) Use the cutest names for your wife. Rasulullah SAW had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

3.) Don’t treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day – which brings no attention from the husband – until she does something to ‘bug’ him. Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4.) If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasulullah SAW used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives Radiallahu Anhunn. It is something that very few muslim men have learnt or practice with their wives.

5.) Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the muslim ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasulullah SAW would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.

6.) Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don’t be that person; thank her!

7.) Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what makes her happy. You don’t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those things in your life.

8.) Don’t belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasulullah SAW set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah RA was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9.) Be humorous and play games with your wife. Make her laugh, have little ‘inside’ jokes and moments with her. Honestly your wifes laughter is one of the best sounds in life. Make her smile keep & her happy. Look at how Rasulullah SAW would race his wife Aisha RA in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10.) Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger SAW: “The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.” Try to be the best!

Never forget to make dua to Allah SWT to make your marriage successful. And Allah SWT knows best. :)

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