To be an independent kid

Ni gambar semalam…punyalah ceria muka budak 2 orang dok tunggu teacher to pick up.Muka Afriena yang ceria setelah dipujuk untuk ke sekolah. punyalah liat nak ke sekolah. Setiap kali suruh pakai uniform mesti dia cakap tak nak pi sekolah nak pi work. Dia ingat pergi work tuh main-main???

13oct06

Ni dah settle.. happylah dia . Since mama dia dah tak kerja so every morning adalah masa untuk ikat rambut macam-macam pesen. Sempat untuk sapu minyak kat rambut dia lagi. Kena sapu minyak sikit sbb rambut dia kering.

13oct08

Tu pulak gambar Ashraff yang susah nak di amik gambar… naper ek budak laki susah nak amik gambar??? baru lepas kejar burung.

Now, Ashraff and Afriena pergi sekolah dengan teacher. Off course we pay the transportation. One of the reason kenapa I tak hantar is, to train them to be more independent. Ashraff will be 6 and Afriena will be 5 next year. So they should be more independent.But remember, walaupun nak train anak-anak kita to be independent, kenalah jugak kita berhati-hati. Sebab too independent pun susah kan.

How I train my kids to be independent. (I’m doing it step by step)

  1. Asingkan tempat tidur – both of them tidur bilik sendiri but once a week dapatlah tidur ngan parents.
  2. Ajar dorang untuk hantar pinggan ke sinki – dorang normally , lepas makan dorang akan letak pinggan mangkuk kat sinki but wash it. kalau basuh sendiri, alamatnya banjir dapurku
  3. Let them to choose own cloth – setiap kali nak keluar dorang akan choose baju sendiri and match sendiri but if we have formal event kenalah follow ours.
  4. Mandi sendiri – i let them mandi sendiri tapi under my supervision kalau tak bilik air jadi foam party. After that I will bilas balik.
  5. and now start with sending them to school with their teacher – next year, I’ll be mother of three so it’s time for them to learn to be more independent.

Note: Mungkin setiap orang ada cara tersendiri but this is my wayCool

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